Cathy's Corner Saturday, February 05 2011
Dear Reader, The best thing about being single is the independence. The freedom to do what you want, when you want, without answering to anyone. The nicest aspect to family and friends is the emotional connection. Knowing that there is someone there for you whenever, however you need them. For many of us the dilemma then becomes how to forge and maintain ties without losing either our autonomy or the liberty we cherish.
Friday, November 05 2010
Pets add so much to our lives, and my golden retriever has enriched my world so very much. I'll never forget the first time I saw her. My husband, daughter, and I had gone to the breeder's to pick out our new puppy. It was Christmastime, and there they were--nine fluffy little golden retriever puppies. All adorable, all four weeks old. I thought there was no way we were going to be able to pick out just one--I was in love with all of them! But as we sat on the floor in the family room, getting to know the little scamps, I noticed one little puppy had hidden behind a chair. She was smaller than the rest, and was peeking out from time to time, before scooting back to safety. Of course, I had to know more about the shyest puppy there, and so did my husband and daughter. We coaxed her out from her hiding place, and got her to sit on our laps. Once there, she did not want to leave. So we began to wonder.... is she the one meant for us? A week later, we went back to visit the puppies again. As soon as we arrived, the shy little puppy came out of hiding, made a beeline for us, and climbed onto our laps. The decision was made--she had chosen us as surely as we had chosen her. We named her Regan--it means queenly, or reigning queen, and that suited her well. We took Regan home when she was nine weeks old. We sat up with her, nights, when she missed her mama and littermates too much to sleep. We've attended puppy obedience classes with her, {now, those were a riot} vacationed with her, logged countless miles walking with her, and cared for her when she was sick. She's my constant companion when I am writing, and a big buddy to everyone else in the family, as well. These days, she is a very outgoing personality. At thirteen and a half, she has a little white on her face, and arthritis in her gait, but her spirit remains indomitable. When I look in her eyes, I know how much love there is in this world of ours... The enclosed photos are three of my favorites. The first was taken when Regan was a year old, enjoying the wonder of her very first snowfall. The second, snapped a year or so later, is Regan relaxing on her favorite place on the deck, while watching over the newly planted tomatoes, and her backyard. The third was taken recently, and shows Regan curled up contentedly on her cushion, napping, while I write nearby.
Regan is the inspiration for many of the retrievers in my books. And she is also the reason I wrote, A COWBOY UNDER THE MISTLETOE….a story about the wonder of Christmas, and the miracles that can occur, when we open our hearts. Happy reading, Cathy Thacker Saturday, October 02 2010
Dear Readers, For many in Texas, football isn’t just a sport, it’s a religion… And nothing makes a game day more special than crispy tortilla chips paired with the ever popular Texas layered dip, guacamole, and chili con queso. Here are a few of my favorite recipes. Go team! Cathy Gillen Thacker Monday, September 20 2010
Dear Reader, Christmas is a holiday that stirs strong emotions and mine have run the gamut. There was my first Christmas as a new bride—very romantic. My first Christmas hundreds of miles away from my family—highly sentimental, and not necessarily in a good way. Our Christmases with our children when they were young and impossibly excited were very joyous indeed. The Christmas immediately following the passing of my father was achingly bittersweet. There are years when the holiday spirit seems determined to elude me—although I always find it eventually. And years when I am overrun with merriment and anticipation weeks before the actual day. I never know how the season is going to start—that sort of depends on what is going on around me. I always know how it’s going to end, with celebration and appreciation, love and family. And the same is true of the residents of fictional Laramie, Texas.
Tuesday, August 10 2010
Dear Reader, What makes a good father? To answer that question, I have only to look as far as my own dad. He was always there for me. Or to put it in today’s slang, “He showed up.” It didn’t matter whether I had a fall from my bike or a piano recital or the birth of my first child. He was always there to bandage a knee, cheer me on, or share in the most incredible joy I’ve ever felt in my life. He showed up.
Wednesday, April 14 2010
WANTED: ONE MOMMY
Dear Reader, Spring is the season of renewal. And what better way to add new energy and excitement to your life than by falling in love and making a lifelong commitment to another person? At lease that’s the way Jack Gaines’s long-widowed mother feels. Sixtysomething Patrice is engaged to be married. Jack would be happy for her if he believed his mother was truly in love with Dutch.
Saturday, March 06 2010
Friday, January 01 2010
SNOWBOUND BRIDE
Dear Reader, During the years my husband I and the kids lived in Austin, Texas, it snowed only twice—and melted the next day in both cases. So you can imagine our excitement our first winter in North Carolina when we learned a major snowstorm was on the way. Unfortunately, we couldn’t have been less prepared. We had no rock salt or sand for the sidewalks, no shovel to clear them, and perilously few supplies. Gamely, we ran out to get milk, bread, and a bag of rock salt. (We didn’t get a shovel because we didn’t think we would really need one.) We put our eldest daughter on a plane back to college, and settled in for a few inches. The “few inches” turned into the Blizzard of the Century-- as the local news reports took to calling it—delivered in three separate back to back snowstorms that closed schools and businesses for a week. During that time, as my family and I struggled to dig our way out of the driveway with a garden shovel, a hoe, a rake and other assorted garden tools, I found myself doing plenty of daydreaming. What if a runaway bride, a schoolteacher on a field trip and a young mother with her baby got stranded by a snowstorm, at the worst possible times in the best possible places, with the men of their dreams? The result? A trilogy entitled Blizzards, Brides & Babies, featuring three romantic comedies—SNOWBOUND BRIDE, HOT CHOCOLATE HONEYMOON AND SNOW BABY.
And while two of the books are now available only in libraries and at used book stores, I am thrilled to announced that SNOWBOUND BRIDE has recently been reissued in both paperback and made available on e-reader as well. Happy reading and best wishes, Cathy Gillen Thacker Tuesday, December 08 2009
Dear Reader, Christmas inspires us all. There is something about the month of December that encourages people to give of their hearts, their time, and their money. For causes, big and small. And to the benefit of friends and family and the people in their lives that they love most of all. But what do we do when a child asks for something we just can’t give? Travis Carson is in that predicament. His daughters, four and a half year old Sophie, and three and a half year old Mia, want a mommy for Christmas, and they expect Santa to bring them one. Travis explains this isn’t possible. And because he wants his two little girls to be happy, begins looking for other ways to give them more of the feminine influence they need in their lives.
Tuesday, October 13 2009
Dear Reader, Guys like to help each other out. Whether it’s by fixing a car, working together on a business deal, or providing moral support. When they are friends, they are there for each other. The Lone Star Dad’s Club is one of these unofficial yet highly effective groups. The five Fort Worth, Texas men have known each other for years. They’ve seen each other through accelerating careers, good and bad marriages, and divorce. They share a love and concern for each other’s kids. And figure there is no problem they can’t handle together…. Dan Kingsley is the architect of the group and the kind of guy who likes to find solutions to life’s thorniest problems by thinking outside the box.
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